This is a tricky one. Usually hiring a stylist is kind of like quitting smoking. You have to really want it. I am not gonna do that super tough-love ambush style of makeover like on What Not to Wear, BUT you can invite me over to help host a Style Party with your friends in YOUR closet, and see if she bites. I've also had clients hire me after a friend forwards her my newsletter or a blog post, so try that if you think it will take the pressure off!